Why does everyone not understand?

Why does everyone believe that when a Mexican falls in love with an American citizen that they are just using them for their green cards and thats it. Just for your information most Mexicans know that it may be impossible to become a legal citizen or resident of the US even if they marry a legal citizen. Everyone is just stereotyping Mexicans because there have been bad ones before but does that mean when a white man beats his wife all white men beat there wifes or when a black man cheats on his wife does that mean all black men cheat no it doesnt so stop stereotyping until you know what your talking about.

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If it's Mexican then people think citizenship. If it's Asian then people think Mail Order Bride. If it's East European then people think Internet Bride. Mexicans are not the only group to get stereotyped.
i couldnt care less
THIS IS VERY TRUE ONLY 99% OF MEXICAN MARRY FOR GREEN CARDS NOT ALL OF THEM.
Once the wall is up, we'll no longer have to discuss this. :-)
What part of ILLEGAL is not sinking in? I don't care if they marry Godzilla, they are here illegally and need to get the hell out. Now! TODAY!!
This sounds like a personal problem, but it doesn't just happen with Mexicans.
Ummmm. I assess each person for who they are unto themself. I do not subscribe to blanket assumptions or stereotypes. I see a persons' actions, and how they live their life, not label them by demographics.
Why does EVERYONE believe...? Now who's stereotyping?
Look, while I sympathize with anyone who has it rough in life and I understand that we don't always help...illegal is illegal. It's hard to get past that fact. That's where the stereotypes come from, we don't appreciate people coming into the country illegally while some wait for months or years to legally come into our country and make a new life.
quit carring so much about what everyone else thinks. its racism, its alive in the USA. and will always be.
You are stereotyping Americans yourself. I have never once heard anyone accuse a Mexican wanting to marry an American just for citizenship. I have heard some Europeans that have...
The fact is that the USA has to come to new terms with immigration, some how. This makes it difficult for our neighbors to both sides of the border, south and north, to come here to work.

I live in Montana. There was a story last year about a Canadian woman who had been married to an American for nearly twenty years. They had a daughter in her teens who was born in the US. The mother and daughter went to visit the grandparents in Canada. Coming back they only would admit the girl, not the mom. This went on of months. The mother lost her job. What a mess for people.

This happens because people don't do their paperwork first thing and work on getting their citizenship. If they would do that, they would have a paper trail to prove their good intentions.
What's the matter? Can't you find a good law-abiding American Citizen to marry? Would you trust an illegal immigrant not to lie, cheat or steal from you? How would you know that he isn't marrying you for the possibility of getting a green card? How do you know he won't kill you and take your money and use your identity for his wife in Mexico? You're right not all people are bad, regardless of where they come from. However, all illegals are bad because they have proven their disdain and disrespect for the law. Therefore they cannot and should not be trusted. Facts are Facts. Don't be blindsided and don't be taken in by their poormouthing attitudes and statements. Criminals will do whatever it takes to get what they want and if you marry an illegal, you are setting yourself up to be taken advantage of.
Who is stereotyping?
Because instead of focusing on the real problems in our rotting society, they'd rather focus on immigration adn blame themexicans for everything...Just because to some it may be better than mexico doesnt mean by any means that the united states is the best of all countries.if they couldnt be prejudice and descriminate they'd be very unhappy..so they come on MyTend.com to spread their poision even more peopel dont complain about the canadians who do the same as the mexicans in terms of immigration.and as for finding a legal american to marry.if american men were so great how come our prisions are overcrowded???
I agree with you honey! All the way! And I am MEXICAN-AMERICAN and proud of it! And Mexicans are NOT the only ones coming to this country in search of a better life. And if they didn't make it so hard to become a legal citizen, then maybe my ancestors wouldn't have had to swim across the river to give their children a chance at a better life! Now what some children decide to do with their lives once they grow up is a different story, as it is with any other race or ethnicity.
Hold on buddy! Do not say everyone stereotypes Mexicans. It sounds like you are doing some stereotyping yourself.
No one is stereotyping anyone...our area is being overrun with hispanics and actually the Mexicans are the only ones out of all the hispanic groups that actually work to live here. They are good people.
another fairy tale
Build the wall. If you want to marry something behind that wall, that's up to you. I couldn't care less if you get used for a green card or not.
That's the way their minds work, so they believe the same for everyone.
Hey Cassie, the stereotype is real. Come to my part of the country and see for yourself. It's partially to become a citizen, mostly to mooch, get a house and whatever else. Come and see, please.
They wont understand... they are just close minded ignorant people that stereotype a whole group because they have had bad experiences with a few...
its part if being ingnorent. there are Fu**ed up people in evert race.

black,white,yellow brown or even green heck!...its all the same thing
good vs. bad
Unlawful Entry is a CRIME. Zero tolerance for immigration-law violators! No amnesty, no "stealth-amnesty." No "change of status," marriage fraud, "exceptional leave to remain," no "Temporary Protected Status." If you break the law, depart or be deported. Illegal aliens kill more US citizens each year than the war in Iraq has killed in four years. Apologists for illegal immigration like to paint it as a victimless crime. But in fact, illegal immigration causes substantial harm to American citizens and legal immigrants, particularly those in the most vulnerable sectors of our population--the poor, minorities, and children. Additionally, job competition by waves of illegal immigrants willing to work at substandard wages and working conditions depresses the wages of American workers, hitting hardest at minority workers and those without high school degrees. Illegal immigration also contributes to the dramatic population growth overwhelming communities across America--crowding school classrooms, consuming already limited affordable housing, and straining precious natural resources like water, energy, and forestland. Taxpayers are being forced to pay for the free health care, education, and other welfare programs being given to illegal aliens; Those tax dollars could be given back to U.S. taxpayers or used to keep our borders secure; They may be here illegally, but they sure know how to "work the system" to collect "free" medical care, "free" education, "free" food, Section 8 housing vouchers and other housing assistance, and hundreds of other social services. It costs citizens additional hundreds of billions of tax dollars at every level: local, state, and federal. It gobbles up billions of our charitable contributions. And much of that money ends up siphoned out of our economy and into offshore accounts. Illegal aliens, over half of whom work "under the table" with neither job nor income reported (nor taxed), are not counted as employed or unemployed. But some of those day-labor and off-the-books "job-lets" would be "real" jobs - available to American citizen job-seekers - if employment regulations were enforced. Illegal aliens can get away with tax evasion, et al., which citizens cannot. In short, we have too many workforce entrants and too few jobs created. The ratio works out to roughly 7-10 workforce entrants per job created. If all illegal aliens depart or are deported, all legal immigration halted, and all temporary employment visas abolished, we still have a problem with more US-born workforce entrants than new jobs created. Illegal immigration damages our country and our citizens every day at every level. And not even the attacks of 2/26 and 9/11 have awakened many Americans to the vast dangers illegal immigration poses to our selves, our families, our communities, our society, our values, our principles, our civilization. Zero Tolerance for Immigration-Law Violators! We must remember the lessons of 2/26, 9/11, and the costs we bear every single day. God Bless the U S A !

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