For all those people who are anti-illegal immigrants?
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If my son brought home an illegal immigrant of any race I would talk to both of them separatly and together. I would tell him hes crazy. He will be used so she could get her family brought here. She better not be pregnant. I would tell her, if she hurts my son Ill hunt her down like a dog and make her wish she was never born. Together I would tell them they are welcome in my home as long as they need to stay. Meanwhile, my husband will be upstairs calling immigration, so they can deport her butt. :) Have a nice night.
I have friends at BICE. (Bureau of Immigrations and Customs Enforcement)
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If the immigrant in question is a decent person, and my child truly loved them, I don't see why it'd matter if they were. Especially since if they get married, that will make it easier to naturalize them.
I'm pro immigration and I find this question lame. What if it turned out your son or daughter brought home someone who turned out to be a Nazi? For some people, it's a deal breaker no matter how far into the relationship they are!
They'd probably defacate on themselves, and then go have another Burrito.
I would be devastated that either my daughter was involved with a criminal and would warn her, or if she knew, I would tell her to enjoy her new home back in his country.
I'm opposed to illegal immigration. Your question is kind of like asking if you would turn a family member over to the police. Not in a million years!
I have principles...but i also have priorities, and my family is first.
Help them to get legal. I would worry more that they will split and leave you and your child with the children.
To clear things up, I am not against immigrants of any kind, I just feel they need to get here the right way and do things like the rest of us such as pay taxes to make things fair. Anyway, that's a really tough question and since I don't know the person, it's hard to say. Probably, I would try to convince them to become a U.S. citizen and list the benefits to it. Try to talk to your son or daughter and convince them that this is not right, and get their support in explaining the reason their husband or wife should become a legal immigrant.
I'd turn them in as soon as I had knowledge of the fact that they were not here legally. My son or daughter would have to face the heart break of not knowing a person before they made such a commitment.
I'd do the same if the person was committing anything illegal. When are the pro illegal immigrants going to realize we only want our laws enforced?
If your son or daughter came home with someone you knew to be a car thief how would you respond?
They wouldn't because I would bring them up better than that.
Depends on that person and their character. How has he supported himself in this country, with what identity. Did he steal it or have it forged? Has he treated my daughter well, and been honest with her? Does he love her, or is he just using her for a green card? If he used any deceptions, I would be wary. I don't trust people who deceive to their own ends. But, I would try and help her get him legal he if was a good guy and my daughter loved him.
Just to leave race out of it, let's assume said illegal is from the old country.
It would really depend on my personal impression of the kid. If I didn't like him, I'd use his illegal status as a wedge to get rid of him. It does present some ready made arguments: "He doesn't love you, he's just using you to try to stay in this country!" OTOH, if he was personally acceptable, I'd encourage him to attend to his status /immediately/.
I would tell them that if their fiance plans to sponsor 273 of his or her relatives into the country after they're married, they'd better buy a big house.
I would be against my son or daughter bringing home any criminal. An illegal alien is a crimimal. I would be
against a marriage to a criminal also. So it would be ok in your opinion if if you found out later that your daughter married a bank robber. People are not against illegal immigrants, they are against criminals which is what they are.
I'd respond by asking what they intended to do about their immigration status. For me, adults get to pick their spouses...but I would be concerned about the likelihood the new son/daughter-in-law getting into trouble with the law
I'd do my best to talk them out of it. I'd remind them what they would be doing to their future children if he/she ever got deported.
I highly doubt my son would choose to hook up with anyone illegal, but my mother did and my Grandparents were very much against it, but in time they got over it. And he DID eventually become legal. It's been almost 30 years now..he's a part of our family and we love him...but I'm still against illegal immigration.
I have neighbors below me that are not here legally I have informed ICE they broke the law I can care less about what there crime
Caused to there loved ones they should have thought about that first before the broke the law.
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Villy or how ever you spell it married a woman here in SoCal and now works for AZ, after he got his citizenship and with one child dump his American wife.
My child will only marry a legal citizen of his own race.
an illegal immigrant is a criminal- this isn't a race issue, a sexual preference issue, or anything like that.. this person would be a criminal, and I would be upset just as if my child brought home a drug dealer, or any other kind of criminal
WOW.
My boyfriend is,um,illegall from puerto rico.
I haven't brought him home yet, considering he's 2 years older than me, and illegall.But i'm half latina, still, my mom is white & so is my stepdad.
I brought my husband home (when we were still dating) and he's illegal. We were always up front w/ everyone about things. My family just counseled me to be careful in case he got deported, but actually they were relieved (I had had a lot worse boyfriends). They have accepted him 100% as part of the family, helped us pay for the wedding (his family helped too) although they still counsel us to be careful.
When and who your children marry once they are of age is their choice. I would wish them well, but encourage the illegal to return to their home country and request a vista. I would also say that the first time the US citizen is mad at their mate they will threaten to call immigration. What a mess your family is in.
I would advise them not to marry; marrying someone to get them into the US is asking for divorce.
If the illegal immigrant could get into the US in an appropriate way--THEN marry them. But why risk the question of true intention? Wait until you know for sure..
Signed,
A Mother
A woman who has been burned in the past by motivations hidden and unseen
to me it don't matter what they are if they are or not if my child loves them that is fine with me because i don't mine them being here all you that have a problem need JESUS
I do not support illegal immigration, I do support the current bill and a guest worker program, I have raised my son to be an independent thinker and to know right from wrong, I trust him, I trust his judgment. I would welcome any girl who treats my son right and makes him happy.
Both my kids have more sense than that.
Why do you say a Nazi would not go near a Mexican? Mexico was an active trading partner with Nazi Germany throughout World War 2. Type in Mexican Nazi in your search engine and you will find that there are several Nazi groups in Mexico.
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