Making a best decision?
What should I do? idk how to feel about it.
Answer:
I think you should first have a talk with your fiance. Nobody here can tell you what he is thinking about you or about marriage.
If you are satisfied that he wants to marry you, then you should start the immigration application process from your own end. You might wish to get those contact numbers and use them yourself. Find out exactly what the process is so that you aren't in the dark worry about what's going on.
Almost forgot. Talk to your parents too.
To me it doesn't sound like you are sure you want to marry this guy. There is no rush to get married.
I think you should continue with your education in your country and do what you need to do to be able to support yourself. You shouldn't be dependent on anyone for that! You can check with a university in the city you plan on relocating to to see if maybe some credits will transfer. I would talk to your fiance about how you are feeling.. and maybe you should contact whoever you need to to get the process rolling. Just don't accuse him of anything because that will put him on the defensive right away.
Go back to school get on with your life, immigration matters are not made over night, you could still have quite a wait, the fact that this guy is not making it priority , is a red flag, I am sorry to say , Go on with your life if it happens ,it was meant to be.
Good Luck
You must make your way in the world without having to depend on anyone. Do it for yourself,don't wait for a fiance who may never. Whatever it takes,work save money etc. Be a strong woman and you will get there your own way. Good luck!
Is your fiance a US citizen? If so, and you said the papers have been filed, there's nothing more to do. You'll be contacted in a few months to complete processing of your visa. You don't need a lawyer for any reason. A friend at CIS cannot help the process or speed it up.
If he's not a US citizen he cannot petition you at all. You'll have to get married and then be petitioned as his wife. A visa will take 5 years.
Sweety, I know this is all confusing to you. Please do not stop your education because you will regret it in the future.
Even though his family is well off, that does not mean he will be finacially "stable" to support a familyof his own and chances are that when you get to the U.S. you will have to work also. LIfe is not all peaches and cream here and it's not cheap to live here either.
He connot depend on his parents for money every time things get tight so it's up to both of you to make it. That is why your education is so very important.
The best thing you can do is talk to him about what is going on. If you cannot talk now, there is little chance of making the marriage work. Communication is "vital" in any relationship.
Good luck
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