I Lost The Person I LOVE The Most, Should I Try To Get Her Back?

She did not like me, but with time she realized that I really liked her. After A year and seven months we have had our arguments, but on Sunday I told her that I haven't been feeling the same with the college right around the corner. I had her finally, she told me she loved me she looked at me and cried because she was so happy with me. I felt like that at one point but when she expressed her feelings I was scared. I couldn't respond the same way without lying. After telling her that I didn't feel the same way, that something was missing she cried and told me to take two weeks to think about things. After an hour I was ok and told her not to worry about anything. Then on Tuesday I was being mean to her and she got mad. She told me to leave her house and I did, on the way home she told me that she had enough and that she didn't want to talk to me anymore. The next day I bought her a diamond ring and she didn't accept it, after she said no she told me that she realized she didn't love me

Answer:
There's an old story about a boy who took great pleasure in poking fun at people and insulting them.

One day, his mother had enough and told him that every time she caught him doing this, he would have to pound ten nails into the fence that surrounded the house.

After months and months of pounding in nails, the boy finally got tired of it. He told his mom he would stop ridiculing people. The mother ordered him to remove all the nails from the fence, and he did.

Afterwards, she said, "Look at all the holes in the fence. It looks pretty bad, doesn't it? Now you have an idea what happens when you hurt someone's feelings. You can apologize, which is like removing the nail, but the hole will stay there forever."

Sometimes, saying you're sorry just can't fix things.
Do you realize that you posted this in the Immigration section? Unless she's been deported and you have to "get her back," this question doesn't belong here.
Yea if it was love in which i am in you never want to lose that .....fight for her. if i dumped my boy firend(which i nver will0 i would wnt him to fight for me to win me back.........dont just settle for no go and get her.....dont become annoying though tkeep it to a minium(dont call her 4 billion times to the point shes talking sh*t about you to her friends) keep on a low but yea get her back!!!! =) good luck
hahaha i thought she got deported since this was in the immigration section!
if she doesnt love u, then just move on man. u cant really force her to love u back. return the ring n buy sumthin nice for urself
Well you can't make her love you if in fact she doesn't. My suggestion, (suggestion only) is give it a couple days but don't stalk her. Always keep your options open because it is my belief there is not just ONE person suited to another, There are over 6 billion people in the entire world. Have you met even a million ! I know I haven't. Don't play games with the emotions of another.
All advice is in vain. I am sure you would like to do what your heart tells you to!!!
Do you feel not meeting her would be easy or difficult for you in every day life?
Would you be able to live without her? If your heart tells you to go to her, go!
If it's all the same for you, you would be able to live without her, then don't go!!!
My view. Well to all Romeoes, Love will come in and out of your life all your life. Enjoy it.all. Move on.
If this in on immigration board because of deportation, pack the bags and enjoy the trip.

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