My boyfriend doesn't want to get me pregnant. Does that mean he doesn't love me?
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Wow Dum E. You are back. I asked a question about you a few weeks ago. Look at my question list.
As for your question, having babies is how people show that they love each other. How can you love someone and not want to have as many babies with them as possible? You should dump him and find someone else to get you pregnant.
This is the immigration forum. Your questions are for the high school drama forum not here.
Yes you are confused...this is immigration, not relationships...
Don't get pregnant - you should not start a family with someone who does not want to be there. Doesn't a baby deserve a loving family? No man has ever thanked a woman for trapping him and he doesn't want a baby, he won't hang around. If you really want a baby, find someone who has the same priorities as you.
It's possible that he doesn't want anything long-term with you. However, it's also possible that he simply isn't ready, or he doesn't want children regardless of who he's with. First find out what his reason is. If he doesn't want children at all, you need to reflect on what's more important to you - being with him or having children. After you figure this out, you can decide if you need to break up with him. If he just wants to wait, determine the longest you can wait and let him know. If things don't happen by then, leave him.
it doesn't mean he doesn't love you, maybe its not the right time. ask him
Maybe the kid is smart and realizes that neither of you are financially ,emotionally or mature enough to have the responsibility of another living human being,,,yet. Take the pill, use the condoms, enjoy the moments that are real, time will fly by or grind slow, but that is all perceptional.
When the two of you are ready and agree that you are mature and fiscally sound enough, then talk about it.
What you should do is be thankful!! You are not married to this guy and a child deserves a committed to each other for life - married - Mom and Dad!! Why in the name of everything that's good would you want to get pregnant? To prove you love this guy? If that is the case - girl - you are messed up. If this guy does not want to get you pregnant, that would be a sign that he does indeed care about you! At the very least, he has some common sense. No offense intended, but you need to take a second look at life....
Yes !!
Don't have kids, parents need to be smarter than their children and after reading some of your questions, please, don't have kids. Is this the same boyfriend whose name you can't remember, or the one whom you cheated on? Grow up and get a life. Boyfriends aren't supposed to get you pregnant,moron, husbands are, that's called planning.
Good for him, one less brat on welfare.
I cannot believe people are taking you seriously. Very funny.
Your boyfriend isn't the only one that doesn't want you to get pregnant, believe me.
It means you are on the wrong forum.This is the immigration category, not the romance problems category.
Nope, he doesn't like you at all.
It means that he is very intelligent and thinking clearly! Don't have kids if you are not married. What should you do - DON'T GET PREGNANT!
Another thing - you don't sound all that bright. I agree, you are confused! You don't seem to know what immigration means and you keep posting stupid questions under this topic. What does "shacking up" and getting pregnant have to do with immigration?
From the questions your asking I'm going to assume he doesn't want the gene pool to be degraded any further.
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