My husband is blackmail me since day one!?
Answer:
Why haven't they deported you yet?
It doesn't matter what you "proved" to USCIS, by your account here all of that was a lie. You don't have a true marriage but rather a marriage of convenience so that you could become a citizen, one that has gone wrong for you. This is the kind of thing that happens when people try to scam others.
Read her other questions first. She married this man to become a US citizen, and since the marriage was a scam has ended up with a man who treats her badly (so she claims) and doesn't want to divorce him because she might get deported. So she wants to stay with him and try to secretly record him during the times she considers to be him abusing her.
She has used him and the US government to gain citizenship, who knows what else she has done. She is playing the "poor woman' routine and I am seriously considering turning her into Immigration Services.
He can't blackmail you if there isn't anything to use against you. You say that he's been blackmailing you since day one, which means it's been going on for about a year now, and you've obviously been giving in to him. I know that you've lied about your marriage being a true marriage, which is probably part of what he is blackmailing you about, since it's been going on since day one. You probably made a verbal agreement to give him money and pay his expenses as part of him marrying you, and now you want out. Of course, you can't have put that in writing, otherwise you'd have solid evidence to use against you. However, there are all of the receipts for bills you have paid and money you've, which shows a paper trail leading to you.
Sending anything to his job constitutes slander, harassment and blackmail on your part.
Video Tape Everything He Does!!! Secret Cameras in HOUSE
divorce him. get away. don't tell anyone where you are. good luck.
Divorce him! If you have any money, move when he is not around and then file for divorce. Get a lawyer and tell the lawyer your situation.
At the beginning of the section on Lawyers, there is a referral service. Ask for a divorce Lawyer that will give you a free evaluation. Good luck.
Wow, women are so easily takened by good love making, smooth talking, good looking men, like myself might add.
But, I have no prenuptial, no spouse abuse, and will always try to work it out first, before jumping in the next bed.
You never know a person, until you live with them 24/7, because what you mentioned goes both ways.
Go talk to a divorce attorney right away to find out your options.
your better off getting a divorce for your safe, and charge him for a Dorey cheating on you. and charge him for assault better know as spouse abuse,and sue him for not paying the bills. end the relationship now.
as far as evidence goes stick a tape recorder or camera in a house hold plant or something then wen u have the feeling he's gonna do something turn it on
get you a video camera and a tape recorder and have all this on tape when you go to court. Be sure and tell the law or your attroney what you are planning to do so they cant tell you that you were trying to imtrap him. What ever you do, please be careful and when you get your divorce get a restaing order against him.. take him to the cleaners as they say. Just get out why you can.
in court its not what you say but what you can prove. If you record everything with hiden cameras, which you can find pretty cheap some will fit in your smoke detectors. then take it to the police. If you are serious about the divorce then go to a lawyer. Im not sure what VAWA is but if you can prove that he is abusive towards you then you can get away. Thank you for standinmg up for yourself and choosing to not stay with this boy. I say boy b/c a man knows better then to hit women.
If he beats you again.Tell the cabron, remember you have to go to sleep sometime. When he asks , tell him you will find out when you go to sleep.
Give me your e-mail and phone #, and I will give you mine, so you know what a man is like, a true man. Get that bum out of your life, you seem as if he had broke down your self-esteem.
As you notice I never mentioned any pictures, looks is not so important, and no bragging, I do get compliments of myself. But, all the prettiest women where I live and been with, were dirty rotten ho's.
check with www.aila.org
no you sound like a hard person to get along with you should act more respectful and obey him
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