Would you sponsor your sister to come to united states?
her kids are receiving welfare and social security disability, she never held a job while in the U.S. she is living out her kids welfare and my mom asked me to help her.
the form says that my resposability will end when: once she becomes U.S citizen,
once she paid 44 quarters to social security,
when I die.
my sister is 45 years , I'm 47. have 2 kids and a lovely wife....paying my mortage and bills on time.
what would you do if you was walking on my shoes?....I will apreciate very much your input.
Answer:
your sister (is she really exists) cannot get welfare nor SSI... only citizens in this country can get these benefits... if she has a green card, which you said she didn't have, pray tell me how she can get all these benefits that are only entitled to american citizens.
also, how did her kids get into the united states? they flew here over the cuckoos nest? what does then mean...? man, it just means you can't even make up a credible story...
let's assume this is a true story....(NOT!) ... unless she is legal she cannot get a job legally! the only way she can get a job is to become an immigrant, where she will hold a green card. then and only then can she get a decent job (not one that pays illegals less than minimum wage) that can support herself and her kids..
but i believe, based on your question, you have no idea what the laws are for illegals, green card holders and the benefits that are only given to citizens of this country are.
a little study and education on your part will do you good....
then you will know what you are talking about and not have people laugh at you at your ignorance...
normally, people who are the most ignorant are the most discriminating of all....i wonder why?
I wouldn't do it if you think she is going to live off the government. You do not want to have to pay all that debt back.
Its your sister...do it.
No I would not, I'm sorry, but thats alot of responsibility to carry.
Here's the "trick" to the question. Quit thinking of her as "my sister". Think of her as just another human being with the track record you report. Now, would YOU support or sponsor an individual with HER track record. I don't think so. I'm in the same situation as you are, except me and my sister are both U.S. citizens by birth, and we're just a few years older than you and your sister, and my sister has been mooching off of everybody all her life, and STILL is and shows NO promise for a change to a more responsible way of paying her own way in life, and I can guarantee you I will NEVER assume financial responsibility for her. She continues to live a parasitical form of life, living off my now deceased father's estate, and he spent untold thousands trying to get her to act responsible, and now he's dead and she's STILL mooching off of him. Do YOU want to have that happen to you?!! I doubt it! And neither do your wife and children! So drop the "sister" / moocher tag she has along with her and ask yourself, would you assume such responsibility for someone who refuses to accept responsibility for themselves?! I doubt it!! Take care of your family first. She shoulda done the same, and so should've my sister. They've consumed thousands enough. Now's the time to turn off the spicket! God Bless you.
Tell your dead beat sister, to find an American dumb enough to marry her, and adjust her status????? Better yet, would she do it for you in the same situation she is in???????
I would not sponsor her now--you could lose your house.
If she is on welfare now there is a good chance she isn't going to get off it--unless she has a degree, and hasn't been able to use it.
If her kids go to college (how old are they?) chances are they will get good jobs and take care of her later on. If you really want to help her, help her children.
I can't, we were all born here.
ya blood thicker than watta
Tell your sister no.
It could be YEARS before she's accepted to be a citizen and she may not qualify. It seems you have invested alot to risk it on somone who's only means of survival is living off others. I'm not trying to be cruel.....but it's no secret we fail in health as we age. She could get ill and you could loose it all or atleast make it to where there's nothing to pass on down to your children or wife as you age as well. Trust me......they can and will take your home for medical bills. It's not a free ride for people who have anything at all. God forbid something happen to you first ,and your wife is left with the responsibility of keeping your promise. Your sister could just not cooperate at all expecting the benefits of her brothers work. Greed does turn family members into vultures and it's not a pretty picture. I would say for you and your families future.....I'd seriously think twice. Your family here would be paying the price for your promise to your sister. By 45...and she's living off the kids income....it's not too promising a picture.
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