For muslims please help?
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Wear a beautiful dress and make sure it hangs well.
Like an Embroidered Jordanian Thobe
I must express my concern though. Are you getting married in the Uk as in someone elses question you stated the follwing.
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I have a child with an illegal immigrant and the child was born here the child is british
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get ready to pray seven times daily in the direction of Mecca.
why don't you ask your boyfriend?
Good luck.
The Muslim religion is one of the hardest to follow. Say goodbye to your razor. Can't shave anymore. . .
PASSPORT CONTROL
Act like a Muslim and sincerely become one in order to have a perfect marriage under Islamic practices.
Wear a burka from head to toe. Or you'll never make it to the reception.
Ask him... he should know better and i agree with " Siervocal"...
Just be your self and don't panic about that ! And everything depends on what type of Muslim the are, i mean committed or not. If so you better wear hijab then !!!
Congratulations and happy marriage
You were never truly a Christian, you just called yourself one. Once you decide to follow Jesus there is not turning back. Sorry to inform you that you have lived a lie.
You mean you have not only said yes to marrying him, but you have let it go this far without investigating Islam, without asking the questions that you are now asking and you are saying you know nothing about it!?!?
Girl you are a fool. Cancel the wedding until you find out more about this. You cant make it perfect when you have no idea what you are doing.
You are too scared and should take some more time before you get into this arrangement.
And its MOSQUE. FIND OUT MORE ABOUT THE RELIGION AND CUSTOMS then get married. Better to be safe than sorry. why the rush.?
Not seven times, but 5 times
5am, 12:30-m, 15:50, 18:15, 19:30.
R U sure?! Ask ur parents 1st. Then U can learn from ur boyfriend.
The Ceremonial is depend on Ur BF family.
Just wearing a moslemah clothes.
The important thing is U MUST B MOSLEM too....
R U ready???
Good Luck!!! and Congrat!!!
It is sad to see that you are throwing away your free will for someone who is not making the slightest effort to meet you halfway. This is the beginning of many things you will give up one by one as you surrender yourself to this very particular society.
Why isn't he or anyone in his family helping you?
Oh you poor thing! Don't do it ---Run for your life!!!
And now for a sensible and totally serious answer.
I know you love and trust your boyfriend, but I think it would be a really good idea if you were to find out what Islam is really all about before you convert. I lived in Saudi Arabia for two years when I was in the Air Force, and I'll tell you right now that I don't think any American woman would like her place in an Islamic-ruled society. Every religion has its good and bad points, but as has already been said, Islam is one of the most stringent, hardest religions to follow that there is.
Be choosy on how you educate yourself about Islam. Keep in mind that if you ask a Muslim, you're going to get the standard line that it's the greatest, most forgiving religion in the world. Search the web for sites that will give you the honest story, and if nothing else go to http:///freequran.com, obtain a free copy of the Qu'aran (the Muslim holy book), and read for yourself what the religion is all about.
This is a HUGE thing you're considering doing in the name of love...for your own good, be absolutely sure that this is what you want to do. Muslim households, if run by the rules of Islam, are VERY strict and VERY restrictive for women.
Good luck.
It seems to me that your decision to convert to Islam is a little premature. You should find out as much as you can about it before reaching such a decision.
I understand you want everything to be perfect. Unfortunately, nothing is perfect, including marriage. Be realistic.
Ever heard the phrase "look before you leap"?
And you are asking this question with just 2 weeks to the wedding! Has it occurred to you that if you were serious about this, at all, that you would already know the answer.
Is this what you really want, or what you feel is required of you, love maybe blind, but blind faith!
Whatever happens good luck xx
All I can say is that many Christians here on MyTend will be praying for you to come to your senses.
Its your life... but be prepared for some drastic changes
You can ask him or his family...they will know better but there's no guarantee that they will tell you "everything"- you know what I mean.........
LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP!
Your future husbands family, should be able to advise you of the correct way, to become a good Muslim wife .
This is not something to take lightly .
If you love your future husband
you need to understand his background and customs before you make such an important commitment
Good Luck for your future happiness
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babe I am white christian and really cant offer you any advice other than when my son died my daughter-in-law met a muslim and they are very happy and he is the sweetest man I ever met. I just want to wish you good luck and both of you have a long and happy life together.
The rag they call the koran affords women the rights of a dog, for your own sake get out now..before he changes and you become his "property"
watch the video
if u are planning to move to a muslim country then, dont cheat on him, it carrys the death penelty, also the islamic faith is very restrictive of women, you need to read a copy of the islamic holy book before you get into this.. you may love him but can you spend the rest of ur life following VERY strict rules
Congratulations, i wish you the happiest of marriges
Whoa ! Aren't you rushing things a bit ? I suggest you convert to Islam first and see if it suits you. And have you met your fiancé's family ? As far as behaviour, religious observance, diet and dress are concerned, each Islamic community is different and each family is different; your future mother-in-law should be able to advise you, or your fiancé's elder sisters, if the mother-in-law isn't around. Some families are fairly relaxed about religious observance, while others expect you to pray five times a day. Some insist on eating halal meat only - others buy whatever Tesco or Asda have on special offer (as long as it's not pork). Some families will expect you to wear a headscarf (the hijab) - other families won't worry, as long as you don't go out wearing a mini-skirt or very short shorts.
A few no-noes: Don't criticise the religion (Muslims tend to be a bit up-tight about this) and never, never criticise, belittle or make fun of the Prophet Muhammad. Respect the Koran (or Qur'an), so don't use it, for instance, to prop up a wobbly table !
Forget about those prejudiced morons who talk about stoning to death, having to wear a burqa or your daughters not being allowed to receive an education. This is not Afghanistan under Taliban rule.
Give it six months. If your fiancé loves you as much as you love him, he'll wait.
all of these things should have been discussed long before now.i would postpone the wedding until you are both more ready.
How did you accept Islam without knowing anything about it, go and get married don't wear any revealing clothes and ask you boyfriend more about Islam and learn along the way, but as soon as you know a practic eof islam it your duty to carry it out.
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