Please Help??

I hv been married for 4 yrs now,I received my permanent 10 yr green card in september of 2006.Last week I found out my husband has been cheating on me with one of his secretary at work. I confronted him about it and he wasnt even sorry about it, instead he got mad at me for spying on him, i told him if he doenst break it off I was gonna leave him, he got very angry and said he will not break it off and threatened to call immigration and have me deported if i tried to do anything. He is not the same person i married 4 yrs ago, I feel he doesnt love me anymore, I am devastated, i dont know what to do, im a housewife and i fear if i separate from him or divorce he will hurt me physically & emotionally. We have a one yr old baby and i dont want to be deported and not be able to raise myson,i cannot apply for US citizenship because I just got my permanent green card and my husband said if i divorce him, i cannot apply for citizenship and immigration will catch me and deport me.Please help!

Answer:
Everything your husband has said is a lie.

Your husband does not have the power to have you deported. Because USCIS has issued you a 10 year Green Card, you have sufficient proved to them that you entered into your marriage in good faith, a fact that is further supported because you now have a child with your husband. USCIS will not require you to stay in a marriage where one person is cheating on the other. If you decide to do so, you can divorce your husband (I recommend mentioning your husband's adultery in the divorce papers), your visa will still be valid, and you can still apply for citizenship after having your green card for a certain length of time. Immigration will not chase after you if you divorce your husband, even if he does call them.
If you have proof he is cheating, I would talk to a lawyer. I don't think any of that is technically true!
Where did you get your green card from? Contact them and explain the whole mess. They will tell you if your husband is telling you the truth. Find out exactly what marital status has to do with green card and citizenship. If it is a long distance call and you are afraid to make it from home, ask for help from someone you know.

Go to a church, look in the telephone book for social service agencies and find a women's center and they will direct you to the right agency - perhaps an Abused Women Shelter. They will not tell your husband.

YOU ARE ONLY ALONE AS LONG AS YOU DO NOT REACH OUT FOR HELP. Be brave for yourself and especially for your beloved baby. You write very well, and will be able to get on fine without your husband once you have made the first steps to get advice about the steps you need to take.
Join the military-simple. They'll make you a citizen after you serve and you'll have great benefits.
I'm pretty sure filapina is right on this one. The key is to get citizenship or an extension before your green card runs out.

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