Should I move to the other side of the world for my partner?

I'm from the uk, last year i went to australia and met the love of my life, we've been together over a year. The thing is he wants me to move to auistralia, I have the ticket but there is one thing holding me back and thats my career. Before I went to Australia I had various jobs in the film industry, all my contacts are in the uk. I did try and get work in oz with my resume, but no luck. If I were to move I'd have to do something new and that means all my hardwork financial investments and education would be wasted. I do love this man he is my other half, but he's also australian and doesn't want to live here. He is over here at the moment he's been here for six months. He flys home on Friday..do I go with him???

Answer:
If you love him then it's a no-brainer. Love doesn't happen everyday. Love also means sacrifice, we as women should adapt. You can always jumpstart a stalled career but it would be hard to jumpstart a broken heart.

You have to think of him and how failure would affect him if he stays in the UK, I'm sure he's thought of it too because he wouldn't move back to the land down under if the prospects for him looked hunky dorry there.

In this modern day where women have gained so much ground in a lot of aspects. We begin to forget one thing. Why do we enter into relationships anyway? Isn't it for the prospects of having a partner for life as well as a family? I don't see how difficult a choice it could be. It's not like you will be moving there and just have merry romps between the sheets, this is about your future family. For me, even two people constitutes as family.
good answer..
come on down if you are good at your job you will find work here & the life style is more open & free so you will have a lot of choises
Oh, live a little!

Stay in rainy old England, or have an adventure on the other side of the world?

Even if it doesn't work out, you know you will regret it if you don't try it.
i dont think it works with "i dont like uk, so you move here!" - it doesnt matter at all where he would live if he found his love of his life... for you, he's your other half and im sure for him too if at least he considers your kind of objection to move to aussie for all your reasons. the best is both of you think together which country is the best to live together. if uk, what is the advantages and disadvantages for you and also him, and you do the same with aussie. if you lost your career, it would be his lost too, because when you two together you arrange your finance together. not just finance, if you have hard time to accept being jobless, it would be a headache for him too. dont be rush too much just because he's leaving this week, be wise for yourself and for your future.
Can your partner get a job in the UK? Or are you the only one making financial sacrifices here. What if you get to Australia and he decides he no longer wants a relationship. Then what? Now you are in Australia, unemployed and have lost ground on your career. Sometimes you should follow your heart, but I think in this case you would be wise to let the brain have equal time. Best of luck to you.
Go girl,GO!!
Are you both really in love? Would he do the same for you? How much do you really know this person? I say if you are asking mytend.com, you have serious doubts. You should really think it over. do you need to get married to get a work permit, etc. I say stay, or go for a visit, but don't pack up just yet.
Honey follow your heart, if hes for you, he for you...If he can support you until you find something. Then good for you.. Don't let him get away, he maybe the only one for you. You found him, don't lose him...I married someone from another country, its not easy, but its worth the fight

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